Something is lacking in the lives of atheists -- a church.
They're comfortable not believing in God. That's not the issue. The problem, especially for atheists with children, is the lack of community and its support system of shared values.
From TIME:
[S]ome nonbelievers are beginning to think they might need something for their children. "When you have kids," says Julie Willey, a design engineer, "you start to notice that your co-workers or friends have church groups to help teach their kids values and to be able to lean on." So every week, Willey, who was raised Buddhist and says she has never believed in God, and her husband pack their four kids into their blue minivan and head to the Humanist Community Center in Palo Alto, Calif., for atheist Sunday school.
An estimated 14% of Americans profess to have no religion, and among 18-to-25-year-olds, the proportion rises to 20%, according to the Institute for Humanist Studies. The lives of these young people would be much easier, adult nonbelievers say, if they learned at an early age how to respond to the God-fearing majority in the U.S. "It's important for kids not to look weird," says Peter Bishop, who leads the preteen class at the Humanist center in Palo Alto. Others say the weekly instruction supports their position that it's O.K. to not believe in God and gives them a place to reinforce the morals and values they want their children to have.
In effect, the Humanist center is a church for atheists.
Atheism is their religion.
Their god is the Un-god.
...Atheist parents appreciate this nurturing environment. That's why Kitty, a nonbeliever who didn't want her last name used to protect her kids' privacy, brings them to Bishop's class each week. After Jonathan, 13, and Hana, 11, were born, Kitty says she felt socially isolated and even tried taking them to church. But they're all much more comfortable having rational discussions at the Humanist center. "I'm a person that doesn't believe in myths," Hana says. "I'd rather stick to the evidence."
Clearly, these nonbelievers are trying to fill a void in their lives, but that's easier said than done.
God has big shoes to fill.
3 comments:
Sounds ridiculous. It's interesting to note that even atheists crave the same things for the same reasons Christian/spiritual/believers do. They want a sense of family value, morals, and community. Isn't that why Christianity started anyway? To bring people together and going out into the world to do good? lol.
seems stupid to me... are these "atheists" fine the other 6 days of the week, and only need to feel a sense of community on a sunday? it's sounds as if they're still letting religion get to them.
It seems to me that these atheist parents realize the emptiness of their non-belief.
They appear to want to spare their children that emptiness.
What's funny is that they're searching for the same completeness and peace and understanding that believers find in God.
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