Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Lauren Aljubouri and Eric Tavulares

UPDATE, January 30, 2009: Eric Tavulares Sentenced to 40 Years
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About Lauren Aljubouri:

Monday, one of Aljubouri’s favorite teachers remembered the promising, talented young artist. “We need more non-conformists like Lauren Aljubouri,” Arrowhead High School art teacher Matt Luebke said.

With a mentor’s pride, Luebke showed TODAY’S TMJ4 some of Aljubouri’s work, including the unfinished piece she was working on when she graduated, and an abstract self-portrait.

“She had it, she was very creative,” Luebke said.

Aljubouri planned to follow her passion at UWM’s Peck School of the Arts with aspirations of becoming a teacher herself. Anxious to move on, Aljubouri graduated Arrowhead High School in January, a semester early.

“She did it because she was done with high school. She learned what she needed to learn here and she was ready to go off into the world,” Luebke said.

Aljubouri's younger sister said Lauren looked at life with an artist’s eye. “She was very inspired by anything really that looks interesting. She’ll make her only little way on something,” Brittany Aljubouri said.

See some of Aljubouri's artwork in this video from TMJ4.

Here's more about Aljubouri:

Debbie Aljubouri said her daughter was independent, driven and intelligent, determined to pursue her passion for the arts at UWM.

Lauren Aljubouri had worked at Hartbrook Cafe in Hartland from the time she was 15 until June, painting a mural at the business just before she finished working there, her mother said. Lauren Aljubouri graduated early and with honors from her high school, she said.

Lauren Aljubouri handled her search for colleges on her own, telling her mother that all she needed to do was attend the registration session at UWM, Debbie Aljubouri said.

“There isn’t anything that girl couldn’t do, no matter what it was, and do it well,” Debbie Aljubouri said. “She just handled everything.”

Lauren Aljubouri moved into her apartment within the past few weeks, her mother said.

She had worked at Umami Moto, a Milwaukee restaurant, for about a month, said Omar Shaikh, an owner of the business.

“She was a wonderful girl, rather quiet, but a very dependable, hard worker,” Shaikh said. “She seemed like a young, happy girl.”

Sadly, the story of this talented young woman has an abrupt, horrific end.

Her family and her friends are dealing with a sudden, terrible loss.

Last night during a phone interview with the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, Aljubouri's mom sobbed and said, "We’re just absolutely devastated. She had so much promise in the future, and it’s such a tragic loss. "

She was strangled early on Saturday morning by her childhood sweetheart, Eric Tavulares.

Eric Tavulares was fascinated with the movie “Natural Born Killers.”

He told police he has seen it 10 or 20 times. He told police, according to a complaint filed Monday, that he had been watching it Friday night, the night he strangled his childhood sweetheart, 18-year-old Lauren Aljubouri.

According to the complaint:

Tavulares, also 18, told police he has had known Aljubouri since the second grade and that they had been dating on and off since the sixth grade.

Aljubouri, who graduated in January from Arrowhead High School in Waukesha County, got home around 10:45 p.m. Friday.

She and Tavulares lived in an apartment in the 2400 block of N. Frederick Ave., not far from the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, where Aljubouri planned to study graphic design. Tavulares planned to study fire science at Milwaukee Area Technical College.

Tavulares told police they began watching “Natural Born Killers,” a 1994 movie directed by Oliver Stone in which the murder spree of two psychopathic lovers becomes a media obsession.

They stopped the movie about halfway, Tavulares said, and went to bed.

“He stated he does not recall exactly what happened next,” the complaint says, “but something caused him to switch mentally and he rolled over on Lauren Aljubouri and he began strangling her.”

Within three or four minutes, Tavulares said, Aljubouri was dead.

The murder of Lauren Aljubouri has been reported by local media for the past three days.

However, it was when Natural Born Killers came into the reports that this local story became a fascination for the national media.

The local media, too, have altered their take.

Now the emphasis is on Tavulares and his obsession with that incredibly violent movie, loosely based on a screenplay by Quentin Tarantino and directed by Oliver Stone.

Since its release in 1994, it has been cited as playing a role in a number of real life murders. Supposedly, people watch it and then flip out and kill. Apparently, it's inspiring in that way.

So the death of Lauren Aljubouri becomes another murder linked to Natural Born Killers.

I'm not saying that the media shouldn't report the facts of the case. Tavulares is saying the movie influenced him. It is what it is.

The problem that I have with this national attention and the change in the local coverage is that it shifts the focus to the lore of that movie and off of the very human loss of a daughter and sister and niece and friend.

More on Lauren Aljubouri:

Described by her father, Faiek Aljubouri, as “beautiful, determined, creative and very independent,” Lauren was self-taught on the guitar, loved to write and flourished in art.

“She was quite talented,” said Tom Miller, Aljubouri’s uncle and godfather.

She recently completed a mural at Hartbrook Cafe. Her artwork also was featured on the covers of an AHS school curriculum guide and for a school play, her mother said.

“There wasn’t anything that girl couldn’t do and do so well,” Debbie Aljubouri said.

Aljubouri is remembered as hard working, earning enough credits to graduate from high school early in January, and then working at Hartbrook Cafe until moving into her apartment in preparation for school.

“Everything she told me she’d do, she did it,” her father said. He said as an immigrant, “we all have dreams when we come here – she was my dream.”

In a letter of recommendation for Aljubouri, Sarah Johansen, an English teacher at AHS, wrote, “Though I only had Lauren in class for one semester, she left an indelible impression. She’s a young woman of extraordinary confidence and charisma who is impossible to forget.”

“She was just a good kid,” said Miller.

Killer Tavulares isn't such a good kid.


The suspect is also a former Hartland resident, who is on probation for possessing illegally obtained prescription drugs. Under a plea agreement with prosecutors, the man entered a guilty plea to the misdemeanor charge while misdemeanor charges of possession of marijuana and drug paraphernalia as well as a felony charge of possession with intent to deliver were dismissed.

In September, the man was sentenced to two years’ probation and 60 days in jail for resisting/obstructing an officer. In June 2007, the man was arrested for underage drinking and fighting.

The Journal Sentinel reports that Tavulares has "convictions for resisting or obstructing an officer, possession of an illegally obtained prescription drug and bail jumping."
Tavulares told police that when he realized Lauren Aljubouri was dead, he jumped off her and attempted to resuscitate her.

A police officer arrived at their apartment shortly after 3 a.m. Saturday.

Tavulares answered the door.

“I did it,” he told the officer, according to the complaint.

“I can’t believe it. I did it,” he said.

The officer followed Tavulares into the kitchen. Without being questioned, according to the complaint, he again told the officer, “I killed her.”

TMJ4 reports:
The suspects' family isn't saying anything about Eric Tavulares. But they did have a brief message Monday for Lauren's family. "Our hearts are all broken," said Liz Tavulares.

Eric's sister read from a statement as she struggled to keep her composure. "Lauren was a beautiful woman who we all cared about and we will all miss her very much," Liz Tavulares said.

Eric's sister wants Lauren's family to know this; "From our entire family our deepest heartfelt sympathies our thoughts and our prayers are with Lauren and her family."

Tavulares' family is struggling, too. He has forced his family to bear an incredible burden.

Aljubouri's death is such a tragedy. So many people are hurting.

It shouldn't be fodder for tabloids and trash TV. Her murder isn't some instance of movie violence. For her family and friends, the loss is real and so great.

My heart goes out to her loved ones.

22 comments:

Josh said...

Her mother Debbie said she was upset Tavulares was not charged with first-degree intentional homicide.

She is so right, i just don't get it, he fought with her for at least 10-15 minutes he could have stopped anywhere inmiddle, and he did all this intentionaly, he should be shot, hanged, stranggled and slaughtered.


My heart just goes out to her family and to all who new her, and i'm just trying to imagine what she was thinking her last few minutes of her precious life.

Y does such bad things happen to such good people?

I guess if a murderer would get killed right after killing someone, no one would even try to be evil, but god wants us to have the choice for ourselves, so we can be rewarded in the world to come.

Anonymous said...

I knew Eric and Lauren to an extent and they were both somewhat troubled kids. Unfortunately Eric took a giant step over the line and commited a terrible act. He wasn't your average teen juvenille delinquent. he had real world passions and goals but unfortunately his drinking got in the way.

And to Joshua, you should remember that since he was not aware when he commited the act its hard for him to be charged with intentional homicide. There was no motive and a lot of regret, remember, he tried to kill himself immediately after he came to.

Anonymous said...

Also, just to clarify my last post, I am in NO WAY defending the acts commited by Eric Tavulares, I'm just trying to make sure people think about how the law system works before they get all worked up and try to argue the charges on him. He will get prison time, don't worry about that.

Anonymous said...

I echo the other anonymous posts. I knew both of these kids very well. It's a tragic situation for everyone.

RIP, dear Lauren. The world has lost a bright and shining light.

Mary said...

Eric will have his day in court, and hopefully justice will be done.

That will all play out later in the legal system.

My prayers are with Lauren's family and friends. The shock and grief must be overwhelming.

Anonymous said...

They were "having a conversation" and then he "just switched over" and began strangling her?

People's attention should NOT be on Natural Born Killers. The attention should be on the content of that last conversation. I think it is FAR more likely that it was not having seen NBK 10 times that caused this young man to flip out, but the content of that last fateful conversation. Was she leaving him? She was about to go off to college. Did she want space? To have a real college experience (which would logically include dating other men)?

NBK? No. A converation that somehow pissed this guy off enough that he snapped and killed his girlfriend? Happens every day, unfortunately.

Anonymous said...

first of all, Joshua, if you wanna murder the murderer, then i take you wanna rape the rapist right? after all that is what your saying. and if its not than think before you speak.
Also before we start critizing erics drinking problems and drug problems, lauren was the exact same way, especially with cocaine. i was good friends with both of them and i swear ive never seen somebody do as much blow as her. im not sayin what eric did was right, obviously because murder is never the right answer for anything. BUT im positive it was an accident. they had an extremely abusive relationship. if it was eric that went this far this time by killing lauren, then who knows? next year lauren coulda murdered him. THEN youd all be on opposite sides. or would you? i think most of you are mainly saying this because the victim was a female. so before you think she was a wholesome girl who had her life all straightened out , get the facts jack. dont let the media fool ya.

Anonymous said...

Like most of you I too knew both Lauren and Eric, although we haven't been friends for a couple years now what hurts the most is that i hear from everyone they had a very abusive relationship but NO ONE had ever said anything about it. How can you be a good friend to someone and let them stay in an abusive relationship. I do believe eric had a lot of fault at this because I knew him, I knew his family, his dad was abusive and a recovering alcoholic. Eric grew up in violence. I don't believe for one second that it was just a change of mindset. My guess would be they were having a conversation that was hurtful to eric, a conversation he choses not to remember and that is what set him off. Seriously forget about the stupid movie, the kid saw it several times, if it really would have affected him wouldn't it have affected him sooner? The fact of the matter is lauren is gone and all we have to base anything off of is what eric says, he could say anything and anyone will believe it because he was the only other person there. Eric was never the best kid since the day i met him, where lauren i knew since i was 6 and she was such a good kid growing up. I know they both entered stages in life where they got into drugs, but they have been clean for quite some time now so leave the drugs out of the situation, it doesn't matter now. The complete truth about the murder will never be known, but for now we have to except what happened and move on with our lives.

Josh said...

To all of you, i can just answer one thing: there's no excuse for murder, none.

Anonymous said...

I've known Eric his entire life. How, I'm not going to say because the media has already been after me. He's not dumb. He's completely aware of the fact that he's making himself a celebrity by pulling the "blame it on a movie" card. He's nowhere near insane. If anything, it was just taking abuse too far. As hard as it is for me to say, I hope to God that he rots in jail.

I know that I will miss Lauren dearly. She had problems herself, but in no way deserved this.

Anonymous said...

I do not know why we are all sitting here arguing the details of Lauren's death. What really matters is that she is gone. We need to be supportive to her family and friends and pray that we can get through this.

It is a disgrace to her memory to discuss the drugs and alcohol she did. I am horrified that you claim yourselves as 'friends'. I am sure her family does not want to hear about that; they want to remember the positive and wonderful things this amazing person accomplished.

Anonymous said...

Lauren has already been killed and nothing can bring her back to earthly life. Unfortuantely, I never knew her or her family, but I look forward to the day when I get to meet her in heaven. In my opinion, justice can never be served in a murder. Bad things happen to good people because this is a sinful world. Her family and friends deserve our love and support during this time of immense grief.

Rest In Peace Lauren

Anonymous said...

To anyone who says they were Lauren's friend and are now talking about mistakes she made, you are all ridiculous. Everybody makes mistakes and the fact that you call yourselves friends is a disgrace, you should be remembering the good times, how beautiful she is, and all of her accomplishments. I knew both Lauren and Eric, I've known Lauren for about 5 years and I deeply cared for her, I would never say anything bad about her or bring up anything in her past against her. I'm glad you are all so perfect though, and I'm sure none of you have ever touched a drug. Stop acting like you know everything that happened in this situation, I'm sure you haven't alked to her family like I have and your going completely with what's on the news, you do not know the full story and it will probably never come out, but there are alot of missing peices. Before judging a beautiful person who is deeply missed and who you call a "friend" re-evaluate your own lives.

Anonymous said...

I want to make a few things clear for all of the commenters of this site. None of you knew Lauryn. I was her best friend. Most of you cant say anything. most of you cant even spell her name right. L A U R Y N. if you knew her or eric ... you would know who i am. Come find me and tell me she was troubled. all of you just stop. all of this is just hurting her family and myself. none of you know what is truly going on. JUST STOP. none of you knew lauryn like i did. you dont know her.

Mary said...

All media reports that I've read have spelled Aljubouri's name with an "E." Those are my sources. I apologize for the misspelling.

I don't know her or her family.

The reason I wrote this post about her death was to draw attention to the fact that she was a real person, not just another name on the list of murders supposedly tied to the movie Natural Born Killers.

Unfortunately, some have used the post as an opportunity to comment on her drug use or Tavulares' drug use and their imperfections, while at the same time claiming to be their friends.

I don't know either of them, but I was troubled that national media as well as the local media became focused on the movie connection and were losing sight of the loss of a precious life.

Anonymous said...

Eric faces 60 years in prison on the first degree reckless homicide charge. A first degree intentional homicide charges also carries a 60 year term. My concern with the reckless charge is that he will be able to plead it down. He could plead it down to second degree reckless and what would he face with that? I recently read an article where a drug dealer was facing 78 years in prison. Believe me I wish all drug dealers were off the street but do we value life so little that you can commit a murder and only face 60 years in prison? Eric will be 78 when he leaves prison. He will still have an opportunity to have a life, a short one, but a life. Lauren only had 18 years. Do you think we need to change the law? I do.

Anonymous said...

Whoever this anonymous guy is, who do you think you are you son of a bitch. When you say your not trying to defend eric, how you were his best friend, i think if you went to North Shore middle school or even just hung around nixon park you know eric. He was an alchoholic and at every party i went to he was the one who was in a fight. he has historicly violent

60 yrs in prison is not a suffecient punishment, he will still be alive when he gets out and can kill again

Anonymous said...

a first-degreen intentional homicide conviction carries a mandatory LIFE sentence. whether or not there is parole eligibility is determined at sentencing... in most cases, the judge denies parole eligibility. A first-degree reckless homicide charge carries a maximum sentence of 40 years intitial confinement and 20 years extended supervision following prison (Adds up to 60). Judges rarely sentence a defendant to the maximum term also, so if he's found guilty he'll probably get 30-35 years actually behind bars. a Second-degree reckless homicide conviction carries a max of 15 years initial confinement plus 10 years extended supervision. like the other person said, theres no justice in a murder

Anonymous said...

To you, who have posted as "anonymous," I would like to say tat I'm absolutely disgusted with you. I'm a 2006 Arrowhead graduate and I didn't know either of them. This story is heartbreaking and it disturbs me that you're arguing over what happened. There is no justification, a life was taken and it cannot be fixed. It's sick in the head to even discuss the fact that she had a possible drug problem or "you have never seen someone do as much blow as her." What is wrong with you?? How disrespectful. It doesn't matter if she did cocaine, heroin, prostituting, ANYTHING. It doesn't matter anymore and it is COMPLETELY irrelevant and disrespectful to even talk about. God help you.

BRITTANY A. ALJUBOURI said...

EXCUSE ME EVERYONE, HOW ABOUT ALL OF YOU THINK ABOUT MY FAMILY? ESPECIALLY MY PARENTS? YOU ALL SHOULD BE APOLOGIZING FOR NOT LETTING ANYONE OF US KNOW THE DANGERS MY SISTER WAS IN, YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELVES.

Brittany A Aljubouri said...

here's an update on my comment,

mary, i appreciate your post, you nailed it when discussing the media and their turns on it.

to make you guys aware, the media is awful, THE DAY OF, news media outlets came TO OUR HOUSE because we refused to answer our phones, how sickening is that? they have no hearts.

also, if your sitting here bring out some past problems about lauren, saying you were friends, and posting as anonymous, why not say your name? or maybe come show some condolences to my parents. it's almost 3 years coming up, and the pain and grief they're going though hasn't gotten any lighter. you guys are being cowards and it disappoints me that grace is the only friend who could stick up for lauren.

my loss is that i don't have my sister anymore. you people are lucky. lucky you don't have this terror and tragedy on your mind all the time, lucky your family is still here. this is hell on earth.

Mary said...

I'm so sorry for your loss and all the pain you and your family have endured.

Take care, Brittany.