Friday, March 14, 2008

Kory McFarren and Pam Babcock

UPDATE, March 30, 2011: Another story of an individual physically stuck to a seat, in this case a chair.

Video: Morbidly Obese Ohio Man Fused to Chair

UPDATE: According to WKKX, the man has died.

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UPDATE, October 7, 2008: Beau of woman stuck on toilet wins lottery again

A Kansas man whose girlfriend was physically stuck to the toilet in their home wins $20,000 in the state Lottery, for the second time this year.

Kory McFarren cashed in his winning $2 Bonus Crossword ticket in Great Bend Monday. On July 29, the 37-year-old received six months of probation after pleading no contest to misdemeanor mistreatment of a dependent adult.
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UPDATE, July 30, 2008: Boyfriend of woman stuck to toilet gets probation
Kory McFarren pleaded no contest last month to a misdemeanor count of mistreatment of a dependent adult. A judge sentenced him Tuesday to six months in jail but granted the probation after the victim, Pam Babcock, asked for leniency.

"She didn't believe that her circumstances were his fault," Ness County Attorney Craig Crosswhite said.

...She is now under the protection of a guardian who was appointed through the legal department at the hospital where she received treatment.

Also Tuesday, McFarren was sentenced to six months in jail for an unrelated charge of lewd and lascivious behavior for exposing himself to a teenage neighbor in March.

So McFarren will be doing some jail time, but on a charge unrelated to the toilet incident.
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UPDATE, March 26, 2008: Kan. woman recovering from toilet ordeal
A woman who may have spent nearly two years in a bathroom, sitting on the toilet so long that the seat adhered to sores on her body, remains hospitalized and in pain from medical procedures, family members said Wednesday.

Pam Babcock, 35, was found stuck to the toilet in late February after her boyfriend, Kory McFarren, 37, called authorities to say something was wrong with her. Police believe she sat on the toilet for about a month.

McFarren was charged last week with a misdemeanor count of mistreatment of a dependent adult.

Pat Bollinger, the woman's aunt, said she calls daily to the hospital to ask how Babcock is doing and asks every day to talk to her. Babcock has agreed to talk to her only once for about 10 minutes, she said.

During that one call, Babcock spoke little and mostly listened as Bollinger recounted happy family memories — time spent swimming, camping and boating — from the year Babcock lived with them in Arizona when she was in fifth grade.

Babcock has not spoken about her bathroom ordeal, said Bollinger, the family spokeswoman.

"I didn't bring up anything," Bollinger said. "I just let her know how much I loved her and cared for her."

Babcock's relatives said that no family members have been allowed to see her at the hospital, that they know little of her medical condition and that she spends much of her time sleeping at the hospital's intensive care unit.

"Her wounds are still serious. ... She is not out of the woods by any means. She is a very sick girl," Bollinger said.
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Some advice: If your significant other refuses to leave the bathroom for a period of time long enough that it's necessary for you to bring in meals and clean clothes, contact authorities. Don't wait for two years before getting help.
NESS CITY, Kan. -- A man should be charged for allowing his girlfriend to sit on their toilet so long that her body became stuck to the seat, the sheriff said Thursday.

Ness County Sheriff Bryan Whipple was among authorities who discovered the woman last month living in the bathroom of a mobile home she shared with her boyfriend, Kory McFarren.

"The house was cluttered but not in shambles," he said. "The smell was overpowering — a terrible smell about the house, obviously coming from where she was at."

McFarren, 36, told police his girlfriend, Pam Babcock, 35, had a phobia about leaving the bathroom and may not have left the bathroom in two years, although he's unsure how long she was in there.

He said during that time, he brought her food, water, and clean clothes.

"The only thing I am guilty of is I didn't get her help sooner," he told The Associated Press on Thursday.

The sheriff said that judging by the woman's condition — she had open sores on which the toilet seat would stick — it appeared she likely sat on the toilet continually for at least a month.

"She would have to be sleeping on the toilet," the sheriff said.

Whipple asked the county attorney to charge McFarren for mistreatment of a dependent adult. The prosecutor did not return phone calls seeking comment.

"The unfortunate thing is this truly is a case of two people, in my opinion, with diminished mental capacity," Whipple said.

McFarren, who works at an antique store, said he has been taking care of Babcock for the 16 years they have lived together. He insisted that he tried to coax her out of the bathroom every day. The home has a second bathroom.

McFarren said he finally called police Feb. 27 after he became worried because Babcock was acting groggy, as if she didn't know what was going on around her.

McFarren says, "The only thing I am guilty of is I didn't get her help sooner."

No kidding.

This is such a bizarre story. It reads like a screenplay for an indie film.

Obviously, Babcock has serious mental health issues. A healthy person doesn't remain in the bathroom for two years.

McFarren has issues, too. A normal person doesn't allow his girlfriend to hole up in a bathroom for years and become physically attached to the toilet.

Very creepy.


The story will probably surface at the Sundance Film Festival.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Let me get this straight. Mr. Whipple is the officer in this case? I thought he was the guy selling the Charmin ...

Mary said...

You're right. I didn't think of that. :)

Anonymous said...

Dude!
It's not Mr. Whipple, it's Officer Whipple.
Mr. Whipple is his grandfather!

Lani said...

I don't understand how these two met to begin with. They both sound like they were emotionally unstable RECLUSIVE individuals. How in the world did their paths ever cross?

Nicanor Radomes said...

The PAM BOBCOCK-KORY McFARRENEN case is a unique and interesting one. I'm following it until now. But I found no updates later than 2008. Where is Bobcock now? Who's taking care of her? What does she do for a living? Is she still under medication or under intensive care? It would be much appreciated if you could share something recent updates on Kory McFarren. Updates re the issue from other fans/persons are solicited, too, thank you. Contact e-mail

Snakecharmer said...

She is still in the intensive care unit in great bend ks. He goes to see her at least once a week. I went to school with him he is definately out there, but im sure he meant no harm to her.... I cant say as much for his flashing the 16 year old girl next door tohim though, im sure shes scarred for life over that. He still lives in the toilet incident house btw.