Saturday, January 17, 2009

Obama's Open Letter to Daughters, Malia and Sasha

Some things are personal and should remain personal.

If my dad were about to be the next president of the United States, I would not want an "open letter" from him published in PARADE magazine.

I would want it to be private, just for me, not for the world's consumption.

Here's the letter:

Next Tuesday, Barack Obama will be sworn in as our 44th President. On this historic occasion, PARADE asked the President-elect, who is also a devoted family man, to get personal and tell us what he wants for his children. Here, he shares his letter to them.


Dear Malia and Sasha,

I know that you've both had a lot of fun these last two years on the campaign trail, going to picnics and parades and state fairs, eating all sorts of junk food your mother and I probably shouldn't have let you have. But I also know that it hasn't always been easy for you and Mom, and that as excited as you both are about that new puppy, it doesn't make up for all the time we've been apart. I know how much I've missed these past two years, and today I want to tell you a little more about why I decided to take our family on this journey.

When I was a young man, I thought life was all about me-about how I'd make my way in the world, become successful, and get the things I want. But then the two of you came into my world with all your curiosity and mischief and those smiles that never fail to fill my heart and light up my day. And suddenly, all my big plans for myself didn't seem so important anymore. I soon found that the greatest joy in my life was the joy I saw in yours. And I realized that my own life wouldn't count for much unless I was able to ensure that you had every opportunity for happiness and fulfillment in yours. In the end, girls, that's why I ran for President: because of what I want for you and for every child in this nation.

I want all our children to go to schools worthy of their potential-schools that challenge them, inspire them, and instill in them a sense of wonder about the world around them. I want them to have the chance to go to college-even if their parents aren't rich. And I want them to get good jobs: jobs that pay well and give them benefits like health care, jobs that let them spend time with their own kids and retire with dignity.

I want us to push the boundaries of discovery so that you'll live to see new technologies and inventions that improve our lives and make our planet cleaner and safer. And I want us to push our own human boundaries to reach beyond the divides of race and region, gender and religion that keep us from seeing the best in each other.

Sometimes we have to send our young men and women into war and other dangerous situations to protect our country-but when we do, I want to make sure that it is only for a very good reason, that we try our best to settle our differences with others peacefully, and that we do everything possible to keep our servicemen and women safe. And I want every child to understand that the blessings these brave Americans fight for are not free-that with the great privilege of being a citizen of this nation comes great responsibility.

That was the lesson your grandmother tried to teach me when I was your age, reading me the opening lines of the Declaration of Independence and telling me about the men and women who marched for equality because they believed those words put to paper two centuries ago should mean something.

She helped me understand that America is great not because it is perfect but because it can always be made better-and that the unfinished work of perfecting our union falls to each of us. It's a charge we pass on to our children, coming closer with each new generation to what we know America should be.

I hope both of you will take up that work, righting the wrongs that you see and working to give others the chances you've had. Not just because you have an obligation to give something back to this country that has given our family so much-although you do have that obligation. But because you have an obligation to yourself. Because it is only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you will realize your true potential.

These are the things I want for you-to grow up in a world with no limits on your dreams and no achievements beyond your reach, and to grow into compassionate, committed women who will help build that world. And I want every child to have the same chances to learn and dream and grow and thrive that you girls have. That's why I've taken our family on this great adventure.

I am so proud of both of you. I love you more than you can ever know. And I am grateful every day for your patience, poise, grace, and humor as we prepare to start our new life together in the White House.

Love, Dad

If I were about to be inaugurated as the next president of the United States, I would have said to PARADE, "Thanks, but no thanks."

I really find this to be exploiting the girls and Obama's relationship with them. They are being used as props.

An "open letter" to one's own children?

There's something very wrong about that.

Can you imagine if Sarah Palin had written an "open letter" to her children, for the world to read?

I guarantee that move would have had critics foaming at the mouth like a pack of rabid dogs.

The bottom line: Obama's open letter to Malia and Sasha -- INAPPROPRIATE.

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CNN video.

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ha Ha Ha! You are hilarious Mary! Sarah palin would never do anything so inappropriate. Certainly nothing like dragging her Down's baby around at all hours of the night and hauling him up on stage. Talk about a prop!

It's a great letter and hardly an invasion of their privacy.

You're funny.

Mary said...

How are things in Eatontown?

Anonymous said...

WTF is Eatontown?

Mary said...

You're funny.

Anonymous said...

Noo seriously... where is Eatontown? I honestly have no idea.

Mary said...

Seriously, you're not as "anonymous" as you think.

Anonymous said...

No seriously.... I don't know who I remind you of or where your computer is telling you I'm from, but it most definitely isn't Eatontown. I don't think there is an Eatontown within hundreds of miles of here, as far as I know. I'll go check....

Anonymous said...

I stand corrected. There is an Eatontown 104 miles from here. Learn something new everyday!

Anonymous said...

I guess you're not as "clever" as you thought Mary!

Don't you think Malia is a pretty name by the way? I do.

Anonymous said...

So what IS the story on Eatontown mary?

Anonymous said...

I don't know that I would have chosen to write an open letter of this sort, but on the 'inappropriate' scale this doesn't really rate much of a mention, as far as I'm concerned. It's clear you don't like Obama, and you have that right, but back it up with something of substance rather than pap; this is really scraping and looks a bit pathetic.

And I'm in Houston, before you go checking; blue in a red state; does that make me special? :p

Anonymous said...

I don't view this letter as that personal. I'm a huge Barack supporter, but I really think it reads more like campaign propoganda that personal information. Now, if he'd talked about the time when Sasha was 2 and how proud of her he was when she was finally potty trained or when Malia started kindergarten and screamed for 3 classes straight for mommy, that would be too personal. As it reads to me, he's telling the world that he loves his daughters very much and sharing his desires for ALL young people.

Mary said...

Trolls will be trolls.

Whatever.

Anyway, an "open letter," by definition, is meant for the public to read.

That's what's creepy about Obama agreeing to the request from PARADE. He wrote a personal letter to his own daughters. That's not something that should be public in my opinion.

Of course, in writing this personal letter, writing as a father to his little girls, Obama was really addressing a wider audience.

This letter comes off like a stunt, just part of all the other theatrics leading up to the inauguration.

I wonder if Abraham Lincoln wrote an "open letter" to his sons before he became president.

I doubt it.

Mary said...

To be clear, I don't doubt that Obama loves his daughters and that they love him.

They seem to have a very close, special relationship. I think this country would be in much better shape if more children had the sort of relationship he appears to have with his daughters.

What I'm questioning is Obama sending a message to ALL children under the guise of a personal letter to his precious little girls.

When Obama signs a letter "Love, Dad," he's obviously not talking to ALL children.

See what I mean?

Kelsey said...

I completely disagree that this letter is exploitative. I love that Obama wrote this letter for a publication that reaches millions of Americans every Sunday. While I do wish it was in a more respectable magazine or paper, I'm happy to see it. I think it is a wonderful piece that can be shared with children as a way of opening up political knowledge and discussion. It is written in an intelligent way that is comprehensible to children without talking down to them. I will be using it as a discussion piece in my fourth grade classroom on Inauguration Day.